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Not the worst imo
So I have had some fun on this app, but there are definitely some issues. I wish there was some cheaper affordable version of the premium. The starting plan seems to be kinda pricey. Also, the constant notifications for things that no one would want to get are a big problem considering there’s no option to modify the notifications like that (at least not without paying like $25 a week! Or a longer term subscription at a lower weekly rate), and this problem definitely leads to lots of women and enbys just turning off their notifications and therefore not being able to get relevant notifications like whenever you get a match, or a messsage, or something you would actually want to be notified about. This unfortunately leads to a ton of missed opportunities for meeting and interacting with interesting women :(. But I do like that there is no limit on the profile bio. And there are NOT many options for dating apps for queer women, especially women who are interested in women and enbys. I hope i get to find what im looking forShow lessLonely Transwoman Seeking Gf
Developer Response
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. If you have any suggestions on how we could better the experience of the app for its users, please send us a message at support@weareher.comIt’s changed a lot
HER is one of the more customizable apps within the dating scene—with questions and communities and badges. It allows one to really dig into their own character and get an insight of others before making a decision on whether or not to swipe. It also is one of the only dating apps I’ve experienced that prompts for questions when no one has made a move. However, things have changed from the first time I got the app to now. I’ve deleted it and redownloaded it on multiple occasions, and before you were able to get a preview on people who liked you in your activities with no subscription—so long as it was in the beginning of the list. You didn’t have a limited amount of swipes per day, let alone likes, and premium costs were cheaper. Now it feels as if it’s making things harder to use unless you have the money to dish out $25 a month. The limitations make it very undesirable, with the customizations just barely doing enough to balance it out. I just wish it was easier to use without emptying your bank account, like it used to be when I first got it a year ago. Has a lot of potential but is becoming a cash grab.Show lessbloodbunniez
Developer Response
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.Dumber and dumber
This app literally gets dumber and dumber. The fact that I have my age preference set to a certain limit and “HER” completely ignores it. I have it set for 30+ and they show me people 20, 24, and etc. The app is called “HER” yet it’s full of men, real men and trans men. The fact is that their are men on an app for women. Dumb. I literally just got on the app scrolled through eight people that “liked” me and the app told me that was enough for today😂😂, 8 people. The developers move like they are going through bankruptcy, like they’re broke. They are so desperate for money. Would not recommend this app. App is also getting full of Bisexuals and their partners looking for unicorns. Bisexuals and their man, again on an app for lesbians. 🙄 I wonder if a man is actually running this app since the app is so intrusive and filled with men who think that lesbians want to date them.
Lol @ the response 😘. No response to ignoring age limits. No response to why you try force men on lesbians. No response to charging more and getting less. No response to why your site is turning into a unicorn site. Lol. I’m very much aware that the app isn’t for me hence my review lol. Why even call the app “HER”, it’s misleading lol. Good luck to you all.Show lesseligibleBach
Developer Response
We're committed to making HER an inclusive and safe space for all our users, which includes trans women and trans men. We understand if that means HER isn't the app for you and wish you all the best 🌈Sheesh! Where do I even begin…
It’s unfortunate that this is the number one lesbian/bisexual app out there considering the fact that it began circa 2014 and has become a breeding ground for regressive lesbian dating, it’s super buggy, not to mention completely exploitative in terms of membership pricing, and is full of scammers/fake profiles — it seriously baffles me. When I first used this app circa 2015 I was able to connect with women all over the world, even in Australia and now we’re being confined to finding “love,” at most, about 300 miles away — unless you pay an unreasonable amount. Pfft. This app was incredibly special to lesbian dating back in the day bc it felt more like a safe space for lesbians to not be hit on by couples, but that’s over now bc it’s riddled with couples preying on lesbians. It’s become another app based on “liking” everyone and it kind of just ends there bc no one wants to pay to see more than 4 likes per day, and the only way around that is to practically “friend” everyone on the app in order to talk. — there’s so many improvements that need to be made… However, congratulations to those that have been lucky enough to find their person using the app.Show less*SoCiAliTePriNcEsS*
Developer Response
Hi, we are sorry that you did not enjoy the app as much. Please feel free to let us know what we can do to improve your experience on the app. Send us a message at support@weareher.comMAJOR issues with scammers, SWERFS/TERFS and unprovoked account deletions
This app has so much potential but the moderation team doesn't understand the difference between simply working in the adult industry as MANY of the Marginalized ppl who use this app do and ACTUALLY USING THE PLATFORM TO SOLICIT. I've been reported and removed on this app immediately after encountering transphobes and had my account taken down for "suspicious activity" multiple times for using a vpn.
The app doesn't seem to catch the tremendous influx of scammers and yet burdens its user base with constant unchecked account deletions for using the app without actually violating terms of service. I've been deleted twice this week and I've never once solicited, posted my socials to advertise, sent rude messages or unsolicited pictures. I'll log in and randomly my account will just be suspended for no reason.
FIX THIS BY SIMPLY MAKING VERIFICATION MANDATORY. MAKING A SAFE PLACE FOR WOMEN MEANS MAKING A SAFE PLACE FOR TRANS WOMEN ANS SWERS. STOP DEPLATFORMING AND FURTHER MARGINALIZING WOMEN JUST FOR LOOKING FOR CONNECTION AND INTIMACY.Show lessMalu Fizzgig
Great idea but needs improvement
Too many functions require premium. If you cannot use most of the app in the free version how would one know they want to purchase. At the very least sexuality and location filter should be available to free members. Also the spam accounts matching and messaging about being a sugar baby are quite annoying and time consuming to report and block there are so many. The idea is great for the LGBTQ+ community we need this, also to that most of the community especially the trans part of that save so much for transitioning that even $15 a month is steep that is more then a gym membership just for a possibility you might find someone attractive and compatible. I love the idea i think a little more access and why do the amount of swipes matter to whether you have a subscription. Would not take so many swipes if there were any available filters to be used. Such a waste of time to go through and then have to wait so long before even trying to find someone compatible let alone within reasonable distance.Show lessC88J
Developer Response
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.My Rating/Review Could Change
UPDATE: As you can see below, the developer asked me to email them my info. But the website says duplicate tickets slow down response time. And I clearly stated that I had already submitted a ticket. So what do I do? Also, I noted that many reviews here are negative because they were banned for seemingly no reason & the support tickets were ignored. I hope my support ticket isn’t ignored, but I’m concerned, given that it seems my review wasn’t thoroughly read.
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I was partway through creating my account when I was told I was suspended for suspicious activity. How could I violate the rules if I haven’t started using the app yet? I submitted a ticket with a screenshot of the suspension pop-up notice (which shows where I was in the profile-creation process. I’ve read several reviews that say they’ve had similar issues: blocked for seemingly no reason and support tickets ignored. Should my situation prove to go differently & I can actually try this app, I will review the actual usability & merits of the app. But blocked for suspicious activity while trying to create a profile or being unable actually to use an app even once would rank 0/5 stars. Unfortunately, I have to give HER one unearned star.Show lessSiobi-Wan Kenobi
Developer Response
We're sorry to hear you were having trouble registering with us. Please send our team the information you were trying to use when signing up on support@weareher.com. We'll get back to you soon!Beware Paying for this App
I was kicked off and banned from HER right after I payed for the membership and was awaiting my account to be verified. They banned me saying I didn’t have a face photo but I did. Why else would I be trying to verify.
I waited two months to join again. I didn’t pay until I was verified and guess what same photo I had used previously was my main picture. After I was verified I went ahead and payed for my membership. Guess what a week later in the middle of the night I was banned from my account saying I violated a rule or a terms of agreement. If you don’t agree go to the FAQ…that send you to other links that just give a ton of reasons you can get apparently banned and if you are a straight lesbian you better be open to a Trans man with a penis because if not you will get banned for not being open to the Trans Community. You cannot have preferences on this app because well if you read the rules you are not being all inclusive of the community.
Good luck on this app that bans you with no explanation and keeps your money.Show lessHER app steals your Money
Ok but so far not much luck
The app interface and design is really nice in itself, but i havent had much luck yet. Part of it is because im awkward but its definitely not easy to click with people and find “the one” unless u were to get premium.. which is really freaking expensive. I mean who can afford 30 dollars a month to MAYBE not be single. It sorta feels like a rip off? If it were more of a popular app or had more features maybe it would be worth the price, or maybe u pay after u really click with someone, but to pay with the risk of no luck seems a bit sketchy idk. They should make their trial like, at least two weeks so people can actually experience what the app fully had to offer. I feel like that would be better for them because more people would stay on the app, and more reasonable for the people. People would have more of a chance to meet someone or actually want premium, so they’d make more money long termShow lessAri_Sammy1804
I want to give this app a better review but
I’ve been on her for over a year. Not that I’ve been looking for that long, I just went over to tinder and date a dude for 6 months. (I’m bi and genderqueer and poly) What I like: I love that it is inclusive of polyamorous, kinky, and BIPOC folks. I like the little questions on the profiles. What I think is breaking the app: Her sends me notifications about things I could not care less about and there is no way to change the settings. I don’t want a notification every time I get a like. I don’t want to know about special events. I just want to know when someone on the app messages me. No one responds, like almost no one. When I used this app last year I had several lovely conversations that led to one or two dates with one person. This year almost no one responds. I message everyone I match with and usually nothing. I think this could in part be connected to the issue I listed above. Unfortunately, as cute as this app is, it doesn’t work and I have already moved on to tinder again. I would rate higher, but if the app doesn’t work, it doesn’t matter how the features function. I gave back a star after seeing the responses to the reefs giving one star, trans women ARE women.Show lesshydratedb
Developer Response
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. If you have any suggestions on how we could better the experience of the app for its users, please send us a message at support@weareher.com
