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I want to believe in this app
Finding an app that caters to a bisexual woman is hard, HER is one of the few apps that are legitimate. I have deleted it several times after telling myself I don’t need a relationship right away, but I always find myself re-downloading it in hopes of getting lucky this time around; the app itself is appealing enough to return to. Dating is hard, this app gives me hope as I’ve actually talked to some pretty amazing women. However, the lack of things you can do without premium is more or less disappointing. You can swipe and chat, but that’s about it. There’s a stunning woman who liked me, but without the premium, I can’t view her profile and I’ve run out of swipes just trying to look for her without paying the money. After just graduating college, having subscriptions to these things are hard to keep up with. And the premium trials are nice, until your 7 days are up and that $14 is staring you in the face. You know you want to because you have total faith in the app itself in providing you the chance to meet incredible women, but it can be a bit much for those who are wary of their money.Show lessXS16
I really wanted to like this app
First of all I’ve probably downloaded this app and deleted so many times forgetting each time why I deleted it in the first place. Which shows you I really wanted to like this app. I really did!! But the fact that I will be swiping and run out of “swipes” and it won’t let me swipe for 14 hours unless I upgrade to premium is just bonkers. I get running out of swipes it happens all the time to me on bumble and tinder. But to have to wait 14 hours is just ridiculous. Also it constantly notifies me when someone likes me but when I go to look at my likes it tries to make me pay for premium again!! I get needing to make money but I’d rather have ads pop up and have some certain exclusive features like swiping back have to be paid for then pretty much everything. Also I know with tinder and bumble it only notifies you if you both like eachother I’m constantly getting likes and other notifications pop up on my phone with no way of turning the notifications off on this app and I don’t need my phone blowing up all day. I feel this app needs a bit of a facelift maybe take some tips from tinder bumble and hinge cause I happen to love how hinge has a ton of info without being crazy like ok Cupid which seems like it’s never ending questions. I wish I liked this app but there’s just so much wrong with it. 😕Show lessTrexxrawwr
Good concept bad execution
Let’s face it, there are a lot less LBGQT people in a given area than the heterosexuals. So After about 2 days I was “swiping” through the same faces I’d already seen, and I live in a major city. They constantly ask for you to upgrade but why would I do that when I’ve seen all there is to see? The app, like I’m sure all “dating” apps, is littered with a lot fake profiles. Pictures of beautiful women that anyone would like, but there only one or two pictures obviously looking to scam so poor innocent person.
The profile set-up and editing processes also need an overhaul. If you’re going to allow “cards” to have text on them, once they are posted, you should be able to edit the card. You should also be able to move around the photo order and rotate your profile picture from the photos you have already uploaded.
The “news feeds” do not have many participants which make them less than desirable to engage with.
So while I'm sure a match made in heaven is possible with this app, and I applaud the concept, I really do, but I have decided to delete my data.Show lessLkorlando
Suggestions and Flaws
I like the app, but there are some things I wish were different as well as problems that are extremely annoying.
Suggestions:
- Make the messages more clear. As of right now in your inbox the preview of your messages are either grey or black. Grey for read, black for unread. At a quick glance it makes it hard to figure out if you have a new message. I think it was easier before when there was a circle to represent a new message.
- Add a small bio section for our profiles, it gives us more to work off of when looking through people’s profiles.
- Also for adding events on our profile, let us search and add past events that we’ve gone to and forgot to add or for the new members who don’t find this feature.
- Make adding events to our profile easier.
Fixes:
- Every time I upload a new pic to my profile, the order of my pictures gets jumbled up. This also happens if I change the location of one photo. And when you put them back in order you think you have but it’s only in order to you, not to anyone looking at your profile. This is extremely annoying because some pics are older than others or you simply want people to see certain pics before others
- I can’t find a feedback button anywhere. Usually apps have that. HER has asked for feedback once but I was busy. Then later I have time and can’t find anywhere that I could send feedback (which is why I’m resorting to this platform).Show lessEvery Meowchat User
So much potential, but falls short
First, I like this app’s premise and UI overall. However, it is so buggy now that it’s become almost unusable. The developers keep updating it claiming “bug fixes” but I still have to delete and reinstall the app almost daily in order for it to detect my correct location. I live in MN and it almost always thinks I’m in KS, when I’ve never been there in my life. It’ll say matches are <10 miles away, but then I talk to them and find out they’re a thousand miles away. So I delete, reinstall the app, and then it works fine for a while, but after a few hours have passed, I’ll go back in and I’m matching with people from across the country. It’s a real bummer because I used to find some cool girls on here but now I can’t find anyone in my area because of a glitch. You can’t manually change your location unless you pay either, so I’m wondering if this bug is being kept just to get more people to buy premium. ShadyShow lessgaysanatomy
Best so far
HER is the only decent dating app I’ve used, but I’ve used dating sites over the years. I was very reluctant to try a dating app after having dismal luck with dating sites. Plenty of Fish is garbage and OKCupid is terrible in D.C. if you don’t sort of have a cookie cutter life that looks great on paper, or are pansexual. I met up with 13 women from OKC and zero chemistry. Rarely received messages from anyone interesting. In comparison I met up with 4 people off of HER and the 4th one was the charm. She’s not my future wife but we’ve been dating 4 months and it’s been wonderful. I get tons of matches also and have a lot of fun convos when I’m bored and lonely. Plus I can upload my events to the app and lots of people RSVP to my events there. Dating is often a lonely and frustrating endeavor but I’d have to say HER is one of the better options out there. I give this a 4.5 because it’s good overall but has too many bugs.Show lessLuoooooop
Sos
First, I want to address a conflict I am having. I accepted the temporary 7 day free trial and it said I would automatically be charged after the 7 days... anyway it’s been passed that and I want to cancel my subscription. I’ve tried looking for the “cancel subscription” EVERYWHERE but see it NO WHERE. ?????? I’ve tried following the steps given to cancel but nothing.. I haven’t cancelled anything so I’m worried I’m still going to be charged and I just don’t want this app anymore. PLEASE HELP — leading to my review, this app was great at the beginning. It was something new and fun but then I started getting bored of it. The people I tried talking to were cool for a second but NO ONE has ever wanted to actually meet up or anything. The closest I got to meeting someone was with ONE person who I ended up not meeting. I feel like I get more luck with tinder than I do Her, and that’s heartbreaking because I had high hopes of being in a “my” community. Overall, it’s fun at first but it’s at the point where I’m wasting my time looking at my phone instead of looking at people in front of me.Show lessemvrtz
*WARNING*
This app should be taken off of the App Store! This is the biggest scam I’ve come across. You pay a “premium” fee, and there is no background checks on these people to safely know they are really who they say they are! I was “catfished” by these people who I thought had common interests. They start off by telling you what you want to hear, then the sob story starts and how they need money wired, or iTunes gift cards. Or how they need to get home from Afghanistan, but they can’t access their accounts over there! There’s always an excuse they can’t meet you, call or FaceTime. Yes I am one of those IDIOTS that fell for it and I’m out $500 trying to help a “soldier” come home! I am prior military, so I understand wanting to come home. I called her so called unit, and talked to a Major who confirmed this person never existed with their unit. I filed a police report, and the police confirmed this person was not a resident of that state. PLEASE heed my warning, and find a legit dating app that can assure you the people you are talking to are really who they say they are. And NO one should be asking for money no matter what their circumstances are!Show lesshtisch
