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Too many fake ‘likes’
The app is simple and easy to use, but way too focused on trying to get you to subscribe. I can understand withholding the more premium features for those who pay the money, but I draw the line at being sent fake likes just to keep me “interested” in the app. Every day I’d get likes from several women who had maybe one picture and no profile information. After a couple times returning the like and sending a message (which of course there was no reply), I realized something was up. If these were scammers or catfish, I would think I’d get a reply. So I did some interest research and I discovered that some dating sites/apps will send people random likes from fake profiles just to give the user the little endorphin hit you get when you get like. They are trying to keep you hooked and entice you to pay for the subscription. I suspect some of the likes I got were from other users too; saw a few that were clearly trying to scam. I was very happy to see the app removed their profile quickly, so that’s a plus. I was also please with the ability of the app to delete all of my data and remove my profile when I decided I was tired of getting likes form so many fake people. I can only assume that my data was really deleted, but I suspect they will just end up saving my pictures to use in their fake profiles.Show lesschrista141
It’s works...barely
Positives first. I’ve met my girlfriend of 4 years on this app. So I will always been thankful for that. The app is a great space to meet other queer people, and if you are in a big enough city, you may find someone you connect with. Now the negatives...the people aren’t the biggest issue, it’s the UI of the app itself. 1. I have notifications on, but I can’t clear my notifications tab on the app. I have over 100 likes that have accumulated over the years, and no way to delete them. 2.Please clear out the fake scammer profiles. 3. You should be able to put in a set location, not use GPS. When I go out of town, I still want to see people from my City. And I don’t want to match with people who are only in my area for a a trip, then leave to go home. 4. This app needs better engagement. I will match with a girl, and they won’t respond for a week, becuase they forgot to check back. 5. My profile shouldn’t be shown to people outside my preferences. I keep getting likes from very young people. When my preferences are ages 25+.Show lessPat🌚
Needs lots of work
They need to make this app focused on REAL people... there’s too many unverified people and you don’t know who’s real and who isn’t... There’s also NO interesting people in my area.. There’s too many people looking for a unicorn.. There are lots of people in relationships using this app... I don’t understand why they’re here if they looking for 3 somes... even if you report them, their profiles are still there. I reported someone twice and I believe all they did was block them from my end.. there’s no known bugs, but I believe the subscription is dumb too... I believed that I was getting the best subscription when I purchased platinum, but I needed gold to see the others who purchased subscriptions... that’s dumb... why not make it one subscription??? That way you’re not wasting our money... with the platinum all I could do was see my likes... I couldn’t update my location or search specifically like that... I couldn’t look at the people who were “in the spotlight “ and I also couldn’t click on the people who were interested in me.. so this app needs a lot of work... its far from perfect... I also believe they need a specific button (after verifying) that someone is a black user where we can choose whether we want to date interracially... they assume for us and it’s hard to weed out the bot profiles... in all, I feel like this app was a huge waste of my time... I didn’t meet ANYONE in the 2 months that I was on this app....Show lessLizzy Saldaña
Going the extra mile during coronavirus
Let’s face it, if you’re on HER it’s because you desire more connections of some sort in your life. If you were one of the people without a partner or a family when the pandemic hit you were likely feeling pretty lonely and scared- I know I was. I have always appreciated HER and the app was a long time coming. But Robyn and crew have really stepped up their game during lockdown, and I have developed a new and deep respect for what this app brings to the community. HER has gone above and beyond to host regular online/virtual events to help us stay connected and sane and Robyn is right there at every one. Everything from movie night, to a zoom dance party with a live DJ to AMA with a relationship expert to kink 101, HER has been content packed and, for me, an actual life saver. Thank you!Show lesswaitin2get$$
The BS is getting old
I’m getting really tired of this app. I’ve had this app for 5 years and I’ve only gotten one very toxic relationship out of it. It used to be a mix, but now everyone on the app either doesn’t know what they want or they just want a hookup. It’s become a hookup app rather than a dating app and it’s annoying. I know that’s beyond HER’s control, but I also have some things to say about them too. I have reported this one girl who called me horrible names because she has 15+ profiles made and they still don’t delete them. It’s out of control! Every time I go on the app, I see another one of her excessive number of profiles. They also don’t do anything to get rid of the accounts with no face pictures despite reporting every single one. I still come across them CONSTANTLY. I get being closeted, but this isn’t really an app for the closeted. It’s also unsafe because it could be a straight cis male pretending to be someone in the LGBTQIA+ community. Also, there’s no option to delete your account as it seems because I come across a lot of people with the name “deleted”. Fix these issues and I may consider keeping the app.Show lessJennifer!C
Way Too Many Scammers
I really wanted to like this app because there aren’t enough lesbian apps to begin with. But there are some major flaws with this app. For one, there are more fake profiles then there are real people on this app, all made by scammers literally claiming to be 1)sugar momma & want to spoil you so reach out to them to work this out(will probably do so in one LONG message) 2)an army brat, watch out their birthday is coming up & they might just want a present because they can’t get off base to get it themselves or 3) a cool chick that just wants to tell you about Bitcoin & how awesome it is! Everyone is using it, didn’t you know!?!? I’ve met a few girls off this app but I’ve definitely met more scams and it’s gotten to a point in where this app just isn’t reliable at all. Oh and one more thing, I get there being trans people on this app, no hate there, but why are there men still also popping up to date women. I thought the app was called Her so she could meet Her. It’s a real big let down, this app. You’re better off lookin else where. It’s free but it’s also a waste of your time.Show lessfezky_panda
Needs work
This app could be great but it has a lot of issues. Some filters should be free (like hinge) I currently can’t filter based on sexuality which leaves me, a lesbian, always seeing men and non-binary people pop up and it’s frustrating when I only want to see other lesbians. I also would prefer to match with someone before seeing they “like” me I get so many likes from people that just aren’t my type. I don’t want to be constantly getting notifications for likes. We also need to be able to set our location rather than using the GPS. Right now if I leave the Cory for a day or go on vacation I can’t keep swiping on people from my city, the location changes as you move around and that’s so unhelpful. I know where I live and I only want to see people from there. We need to be able to turn off the location services and just set a permanent location in settings. This app is so out of date it’s interface looks aged and is hard to use. Needs a cool update like hinge or bumble.Show lessDraco's Girl
Account Deleted
My account was deleted multiple times for IDK what reason. The first time I hadn’t used it in a while so I was like ok that’s fair, The second time I suspect I was reported because there are soo many scams on this app and I was just messing around with these scammers that one got mad and got my account deleted, and the third time I was suspended idk if it has to do with the verification method and I just took a picture the verification picture so I guess me with make up on and my hair done looks 100 percent different then me bare faced and ready to go to bed. This app is just weird on so many level like if it was that easy for my account to be suspended or deleted how come there are so many sugar mama scams on the app? I was literally on the app for like 30 minutes if that. On top of the when sugar mama scammer get there account deleted I get multiple notifications from the same exact person, they literally come back with the same name and pictures. Anyway apart from that the app is ok. I met some cool people on there.Show lessKhailen
Found My Soulmate
I tried this app when I was in my teens. There were a lot more things you could do then compared to the last time I used it. I used to download and delete this app OFTEN!!!! But I always came back, just to find a new thing that they changed. This was the only app I could say I did not get catfishes on 😂. Lol. The people are real, most of the girls I met are still my friends today. But I want to say I met my soulmate on this app!!!! I tried this app for years and never met someone I clicked with. Until I met my Wife! Yes I said it... she is my wife!!! We have this app to thank! We met each other about 3 years ago and we just were a match made in heaven! She was everything I prayed for!
So guys, don’t give up. Keep trying! She is out there for you too!
& Developers of HER, if you ever need anything we are here! It is thanks to you guys that I am going to be happy the rest of my life with her! 🤗Show lessgafgsn
Location matters to most people!!
I think this app really needs a more accurate location option. When it comes to swiping, yea there are people in my area. But when it comes to the news feed option, I’m scrolling, I see a few attractive woman, I click on their profile and they’re 1,000+ miles away. There’s nothing one with talking to people outside your state but there should at least be an option to see people nearby on the news feed or see people further away. A lot of people don’t even choose to communicate to one another because they see how far they are and a lot of people are wanting to meet up. What are the chances of actually meeting up with someone so far away? Also please try to get rid of all the “sugar mommas” and catfishes on there please. They are a waste of space. I hope you can update the news feed to show people closer to the city that we live in to make it easier to actually meet people.Show lessE_bone513
