Comparison

SoShe vs The Birth Deck

Price, ratings, monetisation and update history for both apps, side by side — with what reviewers say about each.

Head to head
About

SoShe

This app provides evidence-based information and practical guidance for expectant parents, focusing on birth preparation. It aims to reduce anxiety and empower users with knowledge for a better birth experience.

Highlights
  • Birth preparation guidance
  • Evidence-based information
  • Reduced anxiety
  • Improved birth experience
  • Non-judgmental approach
  • Focus on key topics
Features
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Are you a FTM feeling overwhelmed? We've prioritized the most important topics to get you started. Given birth before but wishing things had gone better last time? You're not alone. Go deep on whichever topics concern you most. Less anxiety. A better birth experience. SoShe can help. * * * Why I built the SoShe app: I learned after my first birth that I should have been better prepared. (And yes, I used all the pregnancy tracking apps.) Now I'm a mom of three, and I WISH I knew then what I know NOW. Absolutely! It's fun to know that your baby is the size of a clementine, or a kumquat. Other apps do that really well. But do you know how to push (and how not to push)? How to reduce the risk of tearing, or an unplanned c-section? Do you know what speeds up labor even more than Pitocin? Or what to do if you're having back labor? Do you know which natural methods are shown to get labor started, which don't actually work, and which to be really careful of? Did you know that you don't have to deliver while lying on your back, and that this might not be the best option anyway? I didn't know any of this. And I really wish I had. SoShe is to get really prepared for birth. Better information. Less fear. More confidence. Better care. Better outcomes for your and your baby. SoShe is evidence-based and nonjudgemental. No topic is taboo or TMI. ​Let's get real. Really prepared. Really supported. #SoSheCanThrive

About

The Birth Deck

This app offers expecting parents doula-inspired tools, illustrations, and 50 techniques for a more comfortable childbirth experience. Learn evidence-based pain management, relaxation, and support methods through video tutorials and practical guidance.

Highlights
  • 50 labor comfort techniques
  • Video tutorials for each technique
  • Evidence-based pain management
  • Natural solutions for labor hurdles
  • Categories: Move, Massage, Mind, Support
  • Doula-inspired guidance
Features
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• Prepare Confidently for Childbirth – The Birth Deck App provides expecting parents with powerful doula tools, illustrations, and empowering birth affirmation cards to help women and their partner feel more connected and supported for a more holistic childbirth experience. • 50 Techniques to Comfort Someone in Labor - A thorough guide to labor preparation that covers topics like packing for the hospital, massage techniques, positions for active labor, positive affirmations, and so much more. The app is easy to understand and provides evidence-based pain management techniques whether you’re having an epidural, water birth, home birth, natural birth or C-Section. • A Full Birth Preparation App - Don't have time for a birth education course? No problem! Learn fun, practical, hands-on techniques for a more comfortable pregnancy and labor experience. Expecting parents will discover 4 categories of cards: Move, Massage, Mind, and Support. Choose from relaxation massages to relieve pain and muscle tension to meditations to ease the mind and body and reduce stress levels. • Video Tutorials – Find a video tutorial for every technique in The Birth Deck App so you can easily learn how to comfort someone in pregnancy and childbirth. The author, Sara Lyon, personally guides you through the techniques so that you will be confident using them in the labor room. • Solutions to Common Hurdles – The Birth Deck app provides natural solutions to the most common problems in labor like stalled contractions, back pain, hip pain and slow labor. Use these techniques alone or alongside pain medication in the hospital. Feeling lost in the middle of labor? Just check out Common Hurdles in your app and apply the techniques you see there. • The Author - With more than 15 years as a doula and childbirth educator, Sara Lyon, author and creator of The Birth Deck App has distilled her wisdom into the 50 most effective techniques for comforting a woman in labor. The Birth Deck is used by nurses in hundreds of hospitals and birth centers around the world to help educate families and nurses about reducing pain in childbirth. The Birth Deck has sold more than 25,000 copies worldwide, and her book You've Got This: Your Guide to Getting Comfortable with Labor is used by midwives, and doulas internationally for birth education. Sara's prenatal massage company, Glow Birth & Body, has locations in Chicago, New York City and Oakland. Terms of Use https://thebirthdeck.com/pages/policies

Screenshots

SoShe4 screens
The Birth Deck4 screens

Verdict

The call

The clearest difference is in-app purchases: SoShe at none against The Birth Deck's 6. SoShe also leads on update cadence (every 6 weeks vs every 12 months) and ratings volume (30 vs 6). The Birth Deck's advantage is rating (5.0 vs 4.7). On price, review sentiment, ads and monetization model there is nothing between them.

Scored on Price · Rating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings · Update frequency · Ads · In-app purchases · Monetization · Best chart rank · Devices · Requires iOS

CostPrice · In-app purchases · Ads · Monetization

Both are free to download. The Birth Deck sells 6 in-app purchases, starting at $4.99 per month. SoShe asks for nothing beyond the download.

ReceptionRating · Positive reviews · Number of ratings

The Birth Deck holds the better App Store score, 5.0 against 4.7. That said, the two scores are not equally well evidenced: SoShe has 30 ratings behind it against 6, so its average is the more settled of the two. Written reviews point the same way: 94% of SoShe's written reviews are positive against 100% of The Birth Deck's.

UpkeepUpdate frequency

SoShe ships an update every 6 weeks, The Birth Deck every 12 months. The most recent releases landed on October 24, 2026 and October 12, 2026 respectively.

Scorecard4 real differences · 6 level
SoShe versus The Birth Deck: the parameters behind the verdict, then further details
ParameterSoSheThe Birth Deck
PriceFreeFree
Rating4.7 (30 ratings)5.0 (6 ratings) — better
Positive reviews94.1% of reviews100.0% of reviews — better
Number of ratings30 — better6
Update frequencyEvery 6 weeks — betterEvery 12 months
AdsYesYes
In-app purchasesNo — betterYes
MonetizationFree with in-app purchasesFree with in-app purchases
DevicesiPhone, iPad, iPodiPhone, iPad, iPod
Requires iOS14.014.0.0
Further details — not scored
Size11 MB44 MB
Age rating12+4+
DeveloperSoshe Inc.The Birth Deck LLC

Customer experience

SoShe

All ratings29 ratings
Positive96.6%
Neutral0.0%
Negative3.4%
Written reviews17 reviews
Positive94.1%
Neutral0.0%
Negative5.9%

The Birth Deck

All ratings5 ratings
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%
Written reviews2 reviews
Positive100.0%
Neutral0.0%
Negative0.0%

In-app purchases

None

SoShe

No in-app purchases

6 purchases

The Birth Deck

Subscriptions1
  • Monthly Full App Access$4.991 Month
One-time5
  • Card$0.99
  • Video$1.99
  • Birth Packing List$2.99
Show 2 more
  • All Videos & More$34.99
  • All Cards, Videos + More$49.99

Questions

Is SoShe free?
SoShe is free to download, with no in-app purchases.
Is The Birth Deck free?
The Birth Deck is free to download, with in-app purchases available.
Which has better reviews, SoShe or The Birth Deck?
The Birth Deck is rated higher. SoShe averages 4.7 out of 5 from 30 ratings, while The Birth Deck averages 5.0 from 6 ratings.
Do SoShe or The Birth Deck have ads?
Both SoShe and The Birth Deck show ads.
Which is updated more often, SoShe or The Birth Deck?
SoShe ships an update every 6 weeks, and The Birth Deck every 12 months. Most recently, SoShe was updated on October 24, 2026 and The Birth Deck on October 12, 2026.

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