So much validation
I’m part of a system of nearly 50 members and I’ve been using this app for over six months now. It’s the only thing I’ve found to be useful on keeping tabs on everyone and who’s in my body when I’m not. I’ve been operating as a system consistently for four years and I’ve never learned so much about my folks than with this app. Journaling can’t come close to how easy it is to edit profiles and “clock in”. Cataloging fronts and time gaps has been so helpful and validating. This is the only tool that I’ve been able to actually get anyone to use let alone my stubborn folks. It’s so easy for my fictives that don’t understand our technology and my phone to use and understand as well.
Anyway, if there were any suggestions (if you’re looking for that): I would really like the ability to add multiple pictures to a profile, and to be able to swipe through a headmate’s pictures like a dating app profile maybe? (I’m sure that be a lot of work but hear me out) then you could not only make their profile reflect who that person is so much better, but you could also have pictures of what they look like in the body. (I like trying to recognize expressions in my folks and this would make it so much easier— and to see how they dress). Not to mention folks that age slide. I think that’d be important to a lot of systems, I know it would be in ours.
Anyway I really love this app thanks so much for making it :)
Anyway, if there were any suggestions (if you’re looking for that): I would really like the ability to add multiple pictures to a profile, and to be able to swipe through a headmate’s pictures like a dating app profile maybe? (I’m sure that be a lot of work but hear me out) then you could not only make their profile reflect who that person is so much better, but you could also have pictures of what they look like in the body. (I like trying to recognize expressions in my folks and this would make it so much easier— and to see how they dress). Not to mention folks that age slide. I think that’d be important to a lot of systems, I know it would be in ours.
Anyway I really love this app thanks so much for making it :)
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Watch App
As a person who is in a system all of us agree (Just two idk why) that their should be an apple watch app because some of us can’t quickly get to our phones while at school or work or in a public place where it could look weird, all I’m saying is having an apple watch app would be helpful for updating who is fronting and who isn’t.
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Thank you so much for creating this app
I have lists upon lists upon lists of alters and every single one of them is outdated. I’ve tried keeping journals I’ve tried looking for apps like this before and nothing has worked out. It’s been organized enough internally but externally it’s C H A O S.
When I found out about this (through Reddit) I immediately raced over here to download it. When we started inputting our information I realized just how nice of an app this is and how much of a QoL change this will be for all of us. I burst into tears and I’m still crying. I am so genuinely grateful for this.
The ability to change primaries/fronting is great, the likes and dislikes, the pronoun option, even being able to select our own colors…. I mean really, sincerely, thank you so much forever and ever and ever.
When I found out about this (through Reddit) I immediately raced over here to download it. When we started inputting our information I realized just how nice of an app this is and how much of a QoL change this will be for all of us. I burst into tears and I’m still crying. I am so genuinely grateful for this.
The ability to change primaries/fronting is great, the likes and dislikes, the pronoun option, even being able to select our own colors…. I mean really, sincerely, thank you so much forever and ever and ever.
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Response from developer
We're happy you have such an improvement in life! Means a lot to us that we can help others like this :)
Love it
This makes it a lot easier to keep track of switches and my friend has access to see who's fronting when so they know. But in the next big update if there could be a place for alter birthdays under the info tab that would be amazing. it's hard to keep track of all of them 😅
Perfect for keeping track
Not only is this app really nice for keeping track of who is fronting and when, it also really helps when I need my friends to know who's fronting. For example, if a persecutor fronts I have certain friends who try and front trigger a protector to help us. I also really appreciate the trusted friends feature!
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Good to keep track of alters
Me and my friend (who is also a system) use this mainly to keep track of our headmates. They have a bigger system than us so they find it more practical than we do. Something that we do enjoy is the polls. It’s an easy way to decide something without having to check journals and it gives everyone the chance to vote, as long as they have our phone on them. I also enjoy that it tells your friends who is fronting. This is a good resource for systems but also be sure to have other resources available.
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different screen for non-systems?
you should try to implement a different screen a system sees when on their friends account. when i go to my friends account (who isn’t a system) it tells me “no one is fronting” and “this person chooses to not share their members” but they can’t share their members if they’re not a system?? it’s confusing :(
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Exciting and Interesting app!
As a close friend of a system, this app is nice as it updates me as to who’s fronting, different system members, etc. I really enjoy using it!
From the other end of things, it’s also an easy app to navigate when updating fronts for my friend when they forget to update who is fronting, etc. from their phone.
I think my only complaint would be the lack of a tutorial for friends using the app? I had to kind of click around in order to navigate myself. Having an example/guide would probably be helpful so that friends of systems navigating the app can see how to view members, information, etc. as well as systems themselves I imagine.
From the other end of things, it’s also an easy app to navigate when updating fronts for my friend when they forget to update who is fronting, etc. from their phone.
I think my only complaint would be the lack of a tutorial for friends using the app? I had to kind of click around in order to navigate myself. Having an example/guide would probably be helpful so that friends of systems navigating the app can see how to view members, information, etc. as well as systems themselves I imagine.
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fine at first
it was great when we first got it: polls, easy front tracking, it was easy for us to keep things in line and made decision making better for us. but then today it automatically updated and when i tried to open it up, it had logged us out. i don’t know the login information but i easily could figure it out so that wasn’t an issue. until it wouldn’t let me login normally and it kept making me create an account instead. i got insanely frustrated and just deleted the app. it’s way too buggy and all of our friends have had issues with it too. i won’t be redownloading this and i’m sure the rest of our system won’t either. we’ll find a method that works for us WITHOUT having buggy issues like this.
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Response from developer
Hey, email us at hello@apparyllis.com. Quite likely you had a typo in your original email while signing up, we can figure out your old email used :)
Slight issues
This app is lovely and is helping us all out a lot but one problem is their profiles are all deleted once i go back on the app, if i look on history switches it says “deleted user” on all of them. Is there any way to restore them?
Response from developer
Hey, email us at hello@apparyllis.com, we can help you :)
