Unreliable currently
I loved this app to start with, unfortunately, since my free trial expired and I have been paying for it monthly, it’s suddenly become very unreliable. There is a constant issue with tone guardian being unavailable and even if you want to send it anyway, it won’t allow you to send your messages. This is a serious issue needing resolution because it creates a major problem not being able to send any messages for extended periods with no identifiable way to fix it. Support is essentially non existent, too. This is an even bigger problem.
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Clear head
I no longer have to read all the toxic messages. This app filters out what is necessary, which helps me keep a positive mindset.
Issues with notifications
I have messed with these setting for the past few months. Please fix the notifications. Text messages don’t notify me with text alerts sounds. They sound merely like a “ding” update from an app. You know ding ding! Someone on facebook posted to their newsfeed etc… fix it please
A powerful resource that changed everything!
This app changed my entire co-parenting experience in a positive way at the perfect time. We are high conflict and had bad communication cycles. My ex refused to get on an app and I needed something to change to break our cycle. I found this app and it changed everything. It stopped me from communicating emotionally and it helped me interpret his communication in a way I had never before picked up on. It gave me confidence to identify his communication as abusive and unacceptable, and helped ensure I didn’t continue to repeat or contribute to the cycle. I highly recommend trying this app - it was transformative in my co-parenting, high conflict dynamic!
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Father in an abusive coparenting relation
The app tones down language so drastically it’s unable to edit messages with legitimate grievances or child related concerns. Anyone dealing with a coercive and controlling ex will likely be disappointed. Relying on the AI editor may exacerbate coparenting unfairness and negatively impact your legal proceedings by watering down your legitimate concerns in your message records.
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Glitchy
Changes your phone number. Corrects things that you don’t ask for. Ex didn’t receive texts for. Whole day but it was showing as read in my side
Disappointment
I have tried reaching out several times for a few months now through email to get help with the app because the app isn’t working property every time that I upload or I try uploading a journal entry and attach pictures to it. The app completely closes. It is extremely frustrating that when they reached out, they said the app is updating the new update coming out blah blah blah 14.99/month is not cheap to be paying when you’re not even getting what you’re paying for.
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Wow! This app saved my peace of mind
The coaching feature on BestInterest is such a godsend. The way they not only give you recommended edits, but actually coaches you up on how to respond, interpreting your coparent’s responses, and the why behind the recommendations. It’s not just using AI to write a response, but actually working with a coach who sees your struggles and holds you accountable. This should be recommended in every court as it actually delivers what other coparenting apps claim they can provide. BestInterest facilitates both healthier and more proactive coparenting. Kudos guys.. go take down OFW!!
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Buggy, poor desktop support
Often difficult to navigate, the MacOS app is pretty much useless, bugger, and unusable. The iOS is fine, I suppose, but difficult to read the actual messages your coparent sends you. Its summaries are often poor or outright misrepresentative of the content written. The $15/mo price is outrageous and is cashing in on parents who are already in a difficult and financially stressful situation, which doesn’t help.
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Perfect for high conflict
I’ve been using this app for a little bit and I’m so much happier and relaxed with tone guard. The app makes sure that my ex can’t be verbally abusive or manipulative, and I have even noticed it’s scared him into not starting needless conflict, knowing it’s monitored.. I can have him blocked on everything now and I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about the manipulation anymore.
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Absolute must have app
I wish I’d had this app years ago! The subscription seems pricy but I think I’ve saved more than double that in therapist fees in a few months just for the peace of mind that my ex’s messages are not only edited to be non confrontational but they’re on record should I need them in court one day.
If you’re coparenting in any way other than 100% peacefully and respectfully you need this app.
If you’re coparenting in any way other than 100% peacefully and respectfully you need this app.
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Absolutely terrible and no support
Not only is the AI slow, it often times out. You can disable it but that’s their main feature they advertise, it’s not unusual for it to sit for a while “reviewing” a short reply. And of course if you say anything negative about th app it removes it. Documents shared are renamed to a jumble of numbers and you can’t preview them. There is no sound notification for messages. Trying to get email support is useless as they never answer.
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A powerful resource that changed everything!
This app changed my entire co-parenting experience in a positive way at the perfect time. We are high conflict and had bad communication cycles. My ex refused to get on an app and I needed something to change to break our cycle. I found this app and it changed everything. It stopped me from communicating emotionally and it helped me interpret his communication in a way I had never before picked up on. It gave me confidence to identify his communication as abusive and unacceptable, and helped ensure I didn’t continue to repeat or contribute to the cycle. I highly recommend trying this app - it was transformative in my co-parenting, high conflict dynamic!
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Helps so much with word soup
I love this app. I used to get pages or word soup with accusations, assumptions, hooks, and straight up verbal abuse. The app filters all that out which is amazing. And then suggests responses or better yet, sometimes recommends no response! It has cleared up so much mental space that used to be allocated to trying to navigate this communication maze with my ex. Thank you!!
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Grateful
I am so grateful for this app. I have tears in my eyes as I write this. You guys who built this and the people who work for you are doing something really good for the world. Seriously. Be proud. You are protecting people from being abused. I have had this for a week and received a 153 hateful messages and I didn’t have to read one of them. Thank you.
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Saves my Peace
This app is truly a lifesaver-my coparent refuses to agree to use a coparenting app, but I can use this one on my own.
It will flag aggressive messages and just give me the basics without all the emotional manipulation. Then I can go back later when I’m ready to see the original message. Also, it helps to have an app I can use for journaling that makes it easy to print out entries for court use. Highly recommend!
It will flag aggressive messages and just give me the basics without all the emotional manipulation. Then I can go back later when I’m ready to see the original message. Also, it helps to have an app I can use for journaling that makes it easy to print out entries for court use. Highly recommend!
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Coparenting code doesn’t work
The code does not work and the coparent has not been able to join
Saved my sanity
This app truly gave me back my peace. Having them give me a summary and flag the message when the other parent is being verbally abuse helps me prepare myself to read his messages. Then it helping me craft messages back so that I’m the adult in the room is truly a lifesaver. Highly recommend for anyone who has a high conflict coparenting dynamic.
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baby momma drama
thank you. get this app if you’re a single dad.
Perfect and then some
This app has just what I need to:
1) communicate in a high conflict level 2 coparenting relationship. The app moderates messages I receive and delivers them to me as third-party, taking the sting out of old, dysfunctional communication patterns.
2) It offers coaching for each reply I give based upon a variety of coparenting relationship types.
3) the journal has made such a difference in how consistently I journal. I can even add pictures.
Technical support is responsive and caring.
The podcast is an outstanding as well; always a very worthwhile listen.
The mission of BestInterest is an enormous uplift to what has otherwise been an incredibly challenging, turbulent set of circumstances for me. Sol, if you’re reading this, keep up the amazing work!
1) communicate in a high conflict level 2 coparenting relationship. The app moderates messages I receive and delivers them to me as third-party, taking the sting out of old, dysfunctional communication patterns.
2) It offers coaching for each reply I give based upon a variety of coparenting relationship types.
3) the journal has made such a difference in how consistently I journal. I can even add pictures.
Technical support is responsive and caring.
The podcast is an outstanding as well; always a very worthwhile listen.
The mission of BestInterest is an enormous uplift to what has otherwise been an incredibly challenging, turbulent set of circumstances for me. Sol, if you’re reading this, keep up the amazing work!
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