Olively: Anxious & Avoidant

Olively: Anxious & Avoidant

Attachment Style Translator

371 ratings
25 reviews
Free
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Details

  • Released
  • Updated
  • December 15, 2025
  • July 31, 2026

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About

This app helps couples understand each other by translating communication based on attachment styles. It offers tools to rephrase messages, decode partner's words, and provides guided programs and educational content to improve relationship dynamics.

Translate messages based on attachment styles
Decode partner's communication
AI-powered relationship check-ins
Guided 7-day relationship programs
Attachment theory library
Real-time trigger risk scores
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What's New in Olively

2.3.3

July 31, 2026

Bug fixes and performance improvements

Subscription plans

olively Pro

olively Monthly

$19.991 Month
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User reviews

Does not listen to you

Awful app. does not help you whatsoever. gives corny text suggestions and refuses to answer your questions because it thinks it’s “protecting you”. it’s a bot that should be able to do as i ask.

can only use if you pay

Absolutely ridiculous in my opinion

Helps So Much!

This has helped me communicate so much better with my boyfriend who is a fearful avoidant. I have an anxious attachment style. While I don’t have the typical issues with texting that this attachment style has, I struggle with those anxious thoughts. This app has helped me understand his attachment style, what he needs, and how to effectively communicate. It has also helped me calm down with the pulse reads and insights!
I definitely recommend this app to anyone who is new to dating or in a relationship! ❤️
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Stupid

Don’t download, it’s like 42 bucks and it’s a waste. And won’t refund me when I cancel

App is junk and free if you just use any Ai tool to ask the same questions — don’t install

Support is nonexistent and they’ll keep charging you even if you request cancellation. Just remember that most of what this app is doing is basic knowledge. I really wish i had never downloaded this POS.

You can literally do this with any free AI tool. And $50 a year for the dopamine hit isn’t worth it.
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Response from developer

Hi Kitty, all Olively subscriptions are billed and cancelled directly through Apple, so once you cancel in your iPhone Settings, no further charges are possible from us or anyone else. Refunds are also handled by Apple at reportaproblem.apple.com, and they're quick with subscription requests. We answer every email at contact@olively.app - if there's anything unresolved on your end, that's the fastest way to reach us. All the best, Zach Creator of Olively

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FAQ

What does Olively do?

Olively acts as a communication translator for relationships, helping partners understand each other by rephrasing messages based on attachment theory. It aims to reduce conflict and improve connection by making communication clearer and less triggering.

How does Olively help with communication?

The app allows you to type what you want to say, and it rewrites it to be better received by your partner, showing you the 'Trigger Risk.' It also helps you decode what your partner actually meant versus what your own attachment style might have interpreted, offering suggested responses.

Is Olively free to use?

The app offers a free version with in-app purchases. While you can access core features and some content, certain programs, advanced insights, or unlimited translations may require purchase.

What is attachment theory and how does Olively use it?

Attachment theory explains how early relationships shape our adult connection patterns. Olively uses this science to tailor translations and insights to your specific attachment style (anxious, avoidant, secure) and your partner's, helping you understand why you communicate and react the way you do.

Who is Olively for?

This app is designed for individuals who feel misunderstood in their relationships, often due to differing communication styles stemming from attachment differences. It's for those who have been called 'too much' or 'emotionally unavailable' and want to break recurring arguments by improving how they express themselves and interpret their partner.