Olively: Anxious & Avoidant

Olively: Anxious & Avoidant

Attachment Style Translator

617 ratings
32 reviews
Free
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Released
December 15, 2025
Updated
November 11, 2026

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Understand your relationship patterns through attachment theory. This app offers quizzes, message translation, and guided programs to help you communicate more securely and heal insecure attachment styles.

✓Attachment style quiz
✓Message translation
✓Text decoding
✓Relationship Pulse insights
✓Guided programs
✓Attachment theory library
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What's New in Olively

2.6.3

November 11, 2026

Chat replies now appear as they're written, and Chat remembers more of what you tell it. We've also improved the quality and reliability of Olively.

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User reviews

Useless App

Doesn’t really give solid feedback and parrots back stuff you can find online.

pay

this app might as well just make you pay for it when you buy it from the app store, makes you do a time consuming quiz just to give you a pay page you cannot get off of. you have to pay to use the app. they wjll respond “free trial” yeah as you PAY to get it and after the trial you PAY to continue. if you dont have money in your apple wallet you cannot use this an you will waste ur time, also it’s genuinely not even a good app its ai system just is awful and cannot comprehend that well and does t even take into account half the stuff you say.
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My boyfriend and I have never been closer

Let me start off by saying that before I downloaded Olively things between me and my bf had not been going great. He’s an anxious attachment and we had been getting into a lot of fights.

It got so bad one morning that I woke up to him banging on my door angry about how I can sometimes be loud when going down our stairwell.

He called me a Sharmoota and told me “I’m not in the West” anymore and then threw a spoon at me! Can you believe that?

Anyways.. I honestly didn’t think there was any hope of saving our relationship but that’s when I came across Olively.

With Olivelys help I was able to translate what he was saying underneath what felt like anger and coldness and help me get to the heart of what he was really saying.

Long story short our little “Sharmoota fight” was really his way of expressing a deeper pain of him not feeling seen and heard by me and missing his home in Egypt😢

I had no idea that there was a deeper side of his story and every time there’s a miscommunication between us I use Olively to sort us right. And now our love life has never been better ❤️💕🥰
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No Free Option

You have to pay money to use the app. Makes you do a long useless quiz and then you get stuck at the pay page. Waste of time, if you’re gonna require people to pay to use it at least put a disclaimer

Supports the dismissive communication

I've been using this app now for about 4 months. The way it responds supports the dismissive avoidant behavior so that you don't trigger the avoidant rather than help to communicate effectively. It's dangerous in that the app convinces the anxious that what they are doing and saying is wrong when it's really just teaching you how to succumb.
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Response from developer

Thank you for spending four months with Olively and for taking the time to write this. We're constantly working to improve Olively, and feedback from someone who's used the app this deeply is invaluable to us. We'd be grateful to hear more about your experience so we can improve: contact@olively.app. -Zach, Olively

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FAQ

What is Olively?

Olively is an app designed to help you understand your relationship patterns through the lens of attachment theory. It provides tools like quizzes, message translation, and guided programs to foster more secure communication.

How does Olively help with anxious and avoidant attachment?

Olively offers specific insights and guided programs tailored for anxious and avoidant attachment styles. It helps you identify these patterns in communication and provides strategies to move towards earned secure attachment.

Can Olively help me understand my partner's attachment style?

Yes, Olively allows you to input your partner's attachment style to see how your patterns interact. It explains dynamics like anxious-avoidant interactions and reassurance loops.

Does Olively have ads?

No, Olively does not contain advertisements. It is an ad-free application.

What are the subscription options for Olively?

Olively offers several subscription plans including Weekly ($6.99/P7D), Monthly ($19.99/P1M), and Annual ($49.99/P1Y). Some plans offer a 3-day free trial.

How often is Olively updated?

The latest version of Olively is 2.6.3, and it was last updated on November 11, 2026. Updates typically address new features, bug fixes, and performance improvements.

Is Olively suitable for all ages?

Olively has an age rating of 4+, making it broadly accessible. However, its content is most relevant for adults seeking to understand complex relationship dynamics.

What devices does Olively support?

Olively is currently supported on iPhone devices.